Summary of Danu Morrigan's You're Not Crazy - It's Your Mother EPUB

Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.

Book Preview: #1 Do not tell your narcissistic mother that you have a personality disorder. She will not hear you, and she will become even more defensive and attack you if you do. She needs to believe she is perfect, and will never consider that she is less than perfect.

#2 The first step in dealing with your mother is to continue seeing her as often as you already do, but keep your new awareness in mind. Now that you know what’s going on, you can try not to take her narcissistic games personally.

#3 Superficial relationships can work well with a narcissist. For a certain value of well, that is. You won’t get any satisfaction or support or friendship from it, but you’ll still be in touch with your mother.

#4 If your mother is an Engulfing mother, you can cut down on how often you see her. But you still want the contact to be healthy and wholesome and good. You want your mother, and nothing changes that.